07 May 2005

A Community or Skorpoxori?

Recently there was a sort of discussion about the nature of the Emirates Greeks Group. Some think that the Group should have a bigger role rather than just organizing ordinary gatherings in cafeterias and restaurants.

Others point out to the responsibility of the officials (Embassy, Church, etc) who represent the Greeks in this country. Yet almost everybody agrees that the busy life in the UAE allows little time for social or national activities.

You are invited to read the following three contributions and add your comment at the end of the text.

1- Message from Evgenia (eugeniep33@yahoo.com)
Date: 17 Mar 2005

Dear Andie and all,

I don't want to say anything negative, but I felt I must say this:

It is great that we are all proud to be Greek, but what I find rather disappointing is that we are letting our own culture down here in Dubai.

A year and half ago when this group started get-togethers and community activities, everyone was eager and excited to join in and meet others of the same culture. Only a few volunteered to organize activities, but at least many joined in.

Now, less than 2 years later, what do we have to show for it? The response to the few gatherings organized lately has been abysmal!

Apart from the fact that those who promise and commit to attending don't show up, the majority don't even bother to respond let alone attend.

The most disappointing is the comment I have heard so often: "why has this place been chosen or that date or....." If anyone doesn't agree with the way something has been organized, then there is nothing to prevent that individual from organizing something different the next time to show us how it could have been done better. Yet, if we do have that solidarity we claim to have, then why do we not attend an event despite our misgivings about location / timing. Isn't that what friendship and community is about?

Where exactly is this pride and love for our culture? I get the impression that it is just lip-service.

There are enough of us - whether 100% or partially Greek - to make a really strong community; a community which provides friendship and support to all of us who are so far away from home and family.

I believe we can do it, but we must all put in an effort. I believe it is something we would all benefit from. There are so many among us here who have a vast deal of knowledge, experience, humour and wit to share. Let's make the most of it.

Best regards,
Evgenia

2- Message from Mary (accounts@hocrent.com)
Date: 19 March 2005

Dear Evgenia,

I partly agree with your position regarding the non-existing Greek community.

I have however some objections as whether promoting of our culture means the gatherings in various restaurants or coffee shops.

Two very important factors that prevent us from being a community is first the Greek Embassy and second the lack of a Greek church.

Some time ago I asked the group if could be possible to have our own steki in Dubai. No one really replied.

I am afraid we are far from being allowed to call ourselves "community". Skorpoxori would be more appropriate.

Regards
Maria Tougia
Maria Tougia/Chief Accountant
HOUSE OF CARS RENT A CAR LLC
Tel : 04-3431222 Fax : 04-3435150
E-mail: accounts@hocrent.com

3- Message from Spyros (nakos767@yahoo.com)
Date: 6 May 2005

Hi Evgenia,

I agree with your position, however, there is more to it than just lack of interest or disorganization.

One of the important points that must be realized is an effective information system. The internet provides a tool but this tool must be used to the maximum extent.

The Greek embassy should be the one gathering, organizing and coordinating - none of which is being done.

I would suggest that all interested meet and discuss, taking points down on a protocol and publishing it here on the site.

I am prepared and willing to cooperate.

Regards
Spyros